Being Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

A very wise person once told me that I need to be comfortable being uncomfortable. I did not understand what he meant then.

But eventually, it hit me. It means that I need to take risks. I need to be comfortable doing things that I don’t like to do out of fear or some other reason. I need to put myself out there.

Doing the same things over and over again in a very repetitious manner can be boring. But it can also be comfortable. We like things that are safe. Being safe ensures survival. But when we constantly are engaging in safe things, then there is no opportunity for growth.

Recently, I hosted a Google Hangout with some of my friends at my school. As you may already know, I attend college online. One thing that I’ve been missing is the face-to-face interactions that are the norm at traditional colleges. Now, the Google Hangout was a very casual exchange. It was equivalent to a group of friends meeting in the dining hall for lunch on campus.

But I’m not going to lie. I was pretty terrified prior to the meeting. I have a fear of public speaking, and it seems to increase in an online environment.

But instead of letting this fear define me or hold me back, I confronted it head on. I hosted a Google Hangout meeting because I wanted to get comfortable with video conferencing.

I’m not going to say that I’m a pro at video conferencing now. I would need more exposure before I’m really truly comfortable. But it was a start. And I felt proud of myself for taking this risk and confronting my fear.

Please help me grow!

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Hi! I'm Helen and I am a 32 year old biracial millennial mom raising two multiracial children. I am a writer, English consultant, and social media manager. I am a self-proclaimed chocoholic.

2 thoughts on “Being Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

  1. Coming from a shy person, new things with new people are terrifying! You have to realize what is driving your fear and then make a conscious decision to move past that fear even when you are red faced and ears are burning. For a long time I repeated the mantra from Dune – Fear is the mind killer, I will let my fear pass through me and when it is gone only I will remain. Saying that to myself has gotten me pretty far! Side Note: I hate that I wasn’t able to be there! Maybe I can be there next time!

    1. It’s amazing how much positive words and thoughts can help to combat fear. If you constantly reiterate a thought to yourself, then you will start to believe it.
      I missed you at the Hangout! But hopefully you will be able to attend next time. 🙂

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